I recently read a book called The Obedience Paradox: Finding True Freedom in Marriage by Mary Stanford. It’s fantastic! Among other things, the author absolutely nails a husband’s responsibility. Here’s a quote: “He lives his headship most authentically, then, when he possesses a disposition of responsibility and accountability for his family’s flourishing.” (pg. 104) I love that, and it rings true in my own experience. When Kathi and our children are doing great, it gives me a deep sense of satisfaction. However, when they’re struggling, I’m accountable and need to help as much as possible. Even when practical solutions are beyond my grasp, which happens more than I’d like, I have a deep sense of responsibility to pray. Remember, our model in is Jesus, who emptied himself even unto death.
Forwarded this email? Subscribe today!
It’s always the right time to honor your wedding vows.
And it’s never too late to re-commit to your marriage.
Amazon reviewer Joel Jansen says:
“This is a great reminder of what should be most important to all men.
The thought provoking stories, messages, and challenges makes this book
one that is sure to stay with you long after you finish.”