I recently read a book called The Obedience Paradox: Finding True Freedom in Marriage by Mary Stanford. It’s fantastic! Among other things, the author absolutely nails a husband’s responsibility. Here’s a quote: “He lives his headship most authentically, then, when he...
Some guys have a warped sense of leadership within marriage and the family. We sometimes think that as husband, we’re the final authority on everything, and that our wives owe us a duty of meek submission in all things, just because we’re the husband. Wives, submit to...
Let’s face it, all spouses experience disagreements. However, we have a choice to make about how we handle those disagreements. In the worst case, they fester and cause ongoing conflict that wound our relationships. In the best case—when we demonstrate respect and...
How do you speak about your wife at home? When one of my sons was a teenager, his relationship with Kathi was contentious at times. One night, I came home from work to a heated exchange between them. Kathi was crying, and my son was in a corner scowling. As it turned...
Do we speak positively about our wives in the workplace, or do we descend into despondent “ball and chain” narratives full of prideful self-pity? There are many benefits of speaking positively about our wives in the workplace, besides the public witness it provides....
Do you want to know one of the most powerful evangelization tools available to men today? Speak positively about your wife at work. Can you imagine? It’s so completely countercultural, it’s shocking. The practice of men objectifying women is pervasive these days, so...
